When it comes to enhancing your pleasure, lube might just be the secret ingredient you’ve been missing. It’s not just for when things aren’t flowing—this simple addition can elevate every intimate experience, making it smoother, more comfortable, and often, more intense. Whether you’re flying solo or enjoying intimate moments with a partner, here are five reasons why lube deserves a permanent place in your pleasure routine.
Lube means more comfort, more pleasure
No matter your age or arousal level, dryness happens. Stress, hormonal changes, or even certain medications can lead to less natural lubrication. Using lube takes the pressure off, reducing friction and making everything feel smoother and more enjoyable. When you’re not distracted by discomfort, it’s easier to relax, get lost in the moment, and experience those peak sensations.
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When your body is relaxed, pleasure becomes the focus—and that’s when the magic happens. This isn’t just about making things easier; it’s about enhancing your experience so you can truly enjoy every moment.
Lube enhances sensitivity for a more intense orgasm
Lube doesn’t just make things smoother—it can actually increase sensitivity. By reducing friction and creating a slippery surface, lube can help you focus entirely on pleasurable sensations. This heightened sensitivity can lead to stronger arousal, deeper pleasure, and ultimately, more powerful orgasms.
As Emily Nagoski, one of my favourite sex educators, says: “Pleasure happens when there’s enough ease for you to relax into your body’s sensations.” Lube is one simple way to ensure that ease, making every touch more intense and every sensation sharper.
Water-based lubes, in particular, offer a silky feel that enhances touch without any unwanted resistance. When you’re not distracted by friction or dryness, you can truly experience every sensation more intensely.
Lube helps you slow down and explore
Using lube encourages a slower, more mindful approach to intimacy. With the added glide, you or your partner can experiment with different speeds, pressures, and techniques that might feel too intense otherwise. This slower pace allows for more exploration and can make the buildup to orgasm that much more fulfilling.
It’s a chance to connect deeper with yourself or your partner, savouring each moment and sensation. Mindfulness is one of the most powerful tools we can use in our intimate lives, and lube allows you to slow down and truly experience the moment—at your own pace. This is how you truly get to know your body and your partner’s body.
Lube boosts solo play
Whether you’re new to self-pleasure or it’s a regular part of your routine, lube can transform your experience. It can make your favourite toys feel better, amplify sensations, and help you reach climax more comfortably. Many people find that a bit of lube helps them explore different sensations and even discover new ways to enjoy solo time.
Solo play is all about you—your pleasure, your body, your terms. Adding lube to your routine takes it up a notch, making the experience even more satisfying.
For a fun tip: Try warming the lube in your hands before applying. It can make a surprisingly big difference in the overall experience.
Lube makes pleasure more accessible
Lube is for everyone. It’s a simple yet powerful addition that makes sex and self-pleasure more enjoyable and accessible, especially for those with sensitivities, post-menopausal dryness, or other conditions. The added comfort means less worry, which can help you feel more confident, more connected, and more open to orgasm.
With the right lube, you can enjoy intimacy without distractions. For those who need it, lube offers a practical solution for achieving a comfortable and pleasurable experience, no matter what your body is going through.
Plus, experimenting with different types—like silicone-based for extra-long glide or flavoured options for oral play—adds a playful twist to your routine, inviting you to explore all sorts of sensations.
Finding your perfect lube
There’s a lube for every preference and occasion. If you’re not sure where to start, water-based options, such as LBDO Flow, are a great all-around choice since they’re compatible with toys and condoms. Silicone-based lubes provide longer-lasting slickness, especially helpful in water or for more intense play. If you’re looking to add a little extra heat or flavour, warming and flavoured lubes can make things even more exciting.
The best part? Lube isn’t just functional—it’s a tool to enhance the full experience. It opens up new opportunities for pleasure and exploration.
So, don’t be shy—add a little lube to your intimate moments and see how it enhances your experience. With so many benefits and types to explore, it’s a simple, enjoyable way to deepen your connection with pleasure.
Rachel Baker is theLBDOfounder and CEO. Baker offers empowering tips and recommendations on embracing sexual wellness, intimacy, and pleasure.